I went to see my friend who just had a breast reduction. She has had some issues like an infection, not as much help as she may have needed, and generally lonely. Honestly I have only heard how much she likes being left alone over the years, nothing about wanting people around. She was so grumpy, geez. Much grumpier than when i helped her years ago after her back surgery. This time had the added stress of quitting smoking recently which may be the difference.
I understand but it was challenging to be honest. Lots of swearing, saying she is going to get the nurses in trouble at the Dr office, complaints about her roommates (out of town), just generally cranky. Then some of my least fave personality traits turned up, like how could i possibly not have watched project runway, or offering me help to find apartments when I am super happy where I am. Both signs of not paying much attention.
Okay just had to get that out, I dont have time in my schedule to go back next weekend, and no weekdays. She is not talking on the phone really so I will let her have space.