I'm sorry to hear about your tree. Nice trees add to a home's comfort and I've not understood people with treeless yards.
Last spring a big wind toppled my back neighbors giant Blue Spruce into my yard. It unfortunately fell into the power pole and snapped it and crunched the wooden fence. It was an ordeal. I was told that Blue Spruce have a shallow root system and are prone to blow downs. In the forests they have some wind protection from other trees that buffer the wind, but in the city where they stand alone they are prone to blow downs when they get big.