My husband’s ex just stopped over to ask 2 big favors. Her cancer came back a year ago and it’s stage 4 and running out of options. For many years she lied about us to both kids, took him back to court repeatedly, etc. The kids are 28 and 30 and about 4 years ago she became more pleasant. She has only one friend probably because of her self centered personality. She needs someone to accompany her to a special cancer treatment center in another state and they won’t see her without someone going with her. She doesn’t want to tell their younger son because he is partway through a year long military officer training and would lose his spot. The older son is like her. I will have to go to her house twice a day to care for 3 animals I am allergic to. For various reasons they cannot be boarded. I felt so bad for her yet much of this is of her making. She was grateful.