Just finished going through the jewelry of my mom's that I brought back from her house. It's not the good stuff, which she is wearing or is in the safe deposit. But it's the costume jewelry and things like her sorority pin and Dd's fraternity pin. I cleaned the box (which is broken and was disgusting with mouse cr%p in it) instead of getting her a new one, as she might recognize what it is if it's hers. I cleaned the jewelry and polished what I could and I will send it back to her in assisted living. She is in a nice place now and they socialize with other residents and she might want to wear some of it.
I cleaned out some of mine and gave her a couple of pieces of mine.
Everything is clean and put away and ready to mail.
It makes me really sad, but it's better to get it done now while she can still wear it.