I have had a male friend for 15 years that we met through another couple. He lived a hour away in the mountains so during the winter he would spend the night if he came to a party at my house. 5 years ago he moved into town and shortly after his long distance relationship broke up. We started to have him over for dinner once or twice a month and cards. He usually makes a salad and veggies once he gets here and I do the rest. About a year ago he made a comment in a joking manner that if my husband wasn’t around he was interested. He has ADD and is kinda socially inept. About a month ago he got pissy because my Maltese bark loudly at his golden when they first come in. This is nothing new. So I immediately take them out until mine calm down. So we come in and he gets a knife to cut the veggies and said this is dirty and threw it across my tiny kitchen past me and it lands in the sink. I asked if he needed a sharper knife and he got a really ugly look on his face and told me to go in the living room and get away from him. My husband was in his office and didn’t hear it. Pretty soon the timer goes off for dinner and everything is normal and then we play cards. He then drinks wine and falls asleep on my couch. He has done this before and spends the night. I turn up the TV very loud and let him know it’s time to go. He mentioned staying over and I said no because it’s too noisy with my dogs responding. I am totally done because I am scared by the whole incident. Haven’t decided if I will tell him on the phone or just be busy when he texts or calls.
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Originally Posted by bae
