My nephew’s wedding was in September, and I planned to wear my go to wedding attire – a glittery jacket and tank top with black pants. When I tried on the jacket, it was a little snug and I didn’t relish the thought of being uncomfortable that evening. I wanted something loose and flowy. So I thought this was a good reason to make an exception.
I couldn’t find anything at the consignment stores, and had no luck at the malls either. I ended up wearing the outfit I had and was glad I did. Not only did I keep on track with the challenge, I forgot all about the snugness once I got to the wedding.
However, when I was at the mall, some items caught my attention. And I discovered many retailers are offering sales on current season items, like friends and family discounts of 25-40% off, limited time only. This creates a sense of urgency.
I fell hard for something and knew I would buy it and knew I would return it. Which I did. But it made me really think hard about why I wanted the item. And it had a lot to do with how I wanted others to perceive me and how I wanted to perceive myself.
Not only is this challenge saving me money, it’s also causing me to look inward and examine why I do what I do. An unexpected benefit and a welcome one.