Feeling so bad for our neighbor today. There was an ambulance at their home a couple of days ago which isn't a rare sight. He has been having issues for awhile and in the last year the caregiving has really started to take a toll on her. She called an ambulance for herself a month ago because he was not able to drive. All ER's were full and they advised they could take her but she would be waiting hours. It was best to wait until she could get into her doctor the next day which she did but it really shook her that had it been urgent for him he would not have the care he needed. Well..... the ambulance was for her and I just found out today that she died of Covid. They have no kids so I don't know where he is going to end up.
Had only a nodding relationship for years. Her husband (older) was kind of the grumpy old "get off my lawn" neighbor to the kids. Since the pandemic we had talked more and more at the mailbox since we had caregiving to our husbands in common. This last summer we started having end of the cul-de-sac happy hours on our lawn chairs in the street. Other neighbors began joining in, BYOB and sharing snacks. She was sooooooo wicked funny. I felt bad that so much time had gone by without realizing what a gem she was. So glad we were able to give her a break from the stress of caregiving if only for an hour or two. This hits hard.