My neighbors in Vermont are strictly adhering to social distancing. Most of my summer neighbors here have homes in rural VT and they are in no way breaching social distancing by coming here to the island. They are taking hikes in the woods surrounding their homes, baking cupcakes with their kids, chopping wood.
I don't know if that's cultural or geographic, but there seems to be a mindset among the Vermonters to be isolated and be safe. A little bit of complaining, but they are making the most of it.
My NJ son/family seem to be similarly inclined. New Jersey is definitely on lock-down with police tape wrapped around our neighborhood playground. You probably need police tape to keep New Jersayans in place.
BTW, BIL has arrived in NJ. He wanted to drive up here to VT last week, and we had to tell him that because he flew from California, through an airport in Florida and into a NY area airport, he cannot come up to see us.