I insisted that DH retire when I did because I did not want him to come home in from working and see me laying on the couch and make snarky remarks about couch sitting.
He has always been self directed, so I didn't worry about him losing his way. But Surprisingly, he does a fair amount of couch sitting now. He also does TV watching in the daytime when we are in Hermann which he never did before. Our television was never on during the day prior to retirement. He does sudoku puzzles while watching TV. The Hermann TV watching also comes in between lumberjacking and building stuff, so it’s not like he’s sitting around all day it’s intermittent tv/ couching.
We have to develop some social contacts here in Hermann. We know a few people superficially. But to really get to know people, we need to do community work. Frankly, I dread the garden club because I know their work means maintaining public plantings. Ugh, I do enough if that at home. But I am not interested enough in the archives or historical preservation groups to get my hands dirty there.
There’s also a big and active senior citizen center that has a very handsome building where people play cards and etc. DH is a big card player so you can easily become a member of those groups