It has been fun reading this thread. It triggered a trip down memory lane for me which I do enjoy. I remembered that I usually chose the colours but DH always chose the actual paint, Kenmore, as he usually did the painting and did it with great care in detail. There was a huge difference in the ease of painting and the drips back then he found. Not sure if that is still true in paints.
I remembered my favourite large farmhouse kitchen which he painted the bright sunshine yellow cabinetry doors framed with white. He was startled with the choice initially but ever afterwards commented that it was perfect for that space. Kids usually chose their colours for their rooms. I still like the colour of a light buttery matte finish. Hmmm.....
Catherine, one day you, too, will enjoy remembering the arguments and discussions that you are now experiencing.