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    When good comes out of bad things

    We have touched on this, but I was just thinking about it today.


    When ransomware wiped out custom software code in my former workplace, that resulted in an aspect of their technology moving to a modern and more sustainable option. Certainly that change didn’t happen without workplace pain, but the bad malware forced a change.


    I see Covid forcing changes all over the place, Changes that are for the good, in my opinion.


    For instance, in my neighborhood we held 2 house tours a year. They are a burden to put on, volunteers burn out after two or three years on the house tour committee, and everyone kept saying “this is not sustainable” yet no one ever had the balls to pull the plug on them. Well Covid forced a “no house tours “environment and we are working through our neighborhood budget without that source of income.

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    It has certainly got me thinking about my future, and I have decided I do not want to retire in the community I currently live in, but someplace that has more respect for personal liberty.

    I learned how to read e-books and they are easier on my eyes in the evenings when it's dark.

    It's made me think more, and evaluate information given me by public health officials and the media more, and made me more resistant to things like vaccines - so no flu vaccines, shingles vaccines, etc. I do expect to still get my tetanus shot in 2025. I also will not again go through a year separated from my parents, not able to hug them, etc. It has given me a certain level of fearlessness in the face of the doom and gloom. As my mother says, "I've got to die of something." Developing that power to stand up to prevailing opinion has also gone in tandem with my willingness to stand up to the mental illness that was controlling my home, and to take charge of that. I am not about to let any illness - physical as in pandemic or mental - control my life.

    And as I have gotten to the point where I don't care if I please, kowtow to, and try to convince authorities to give me my rights - but insist on stating that I deserve them - I also have from reading a couple of books, The Diet Revolution and Broken People, become more accepting of my body and its quarantine fifteen - now more like a quarantine twenty. Just as I don't accept the prevailing narrative about things like masks, I don't accept the prevailing cultural norms about weight. And I own that it has some health drawbacks, and I am adding to my risk if not of covid (which I'm vaccinated against) but of other things, but it's my choice and I take responsibility for it.

    So it's been a time of deciding that no, you will not make me cower in fear. I claim my power.
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    Here is one of my favorite parables--a common one, but this one by Anthony DeMello, SJ. I actually emailed this to my DH yesterday, because he was saying that his teeth were so bad that he had to have them all pulled last spring and he is now dealing with temporary ones [Bad luck?], and it's been hard throughout all of this to eat and he's lost 60 lbs (Good luck?)



    GOOD LUCK? BAD LUCK? WHO KNOWS?

    There once was a simple farmer who lived and struggled alongside his neighbours and friends, trying to exist and fulfil a peaceful life. One day news arrived from far away, that his old loving father had died. His neighbours gathered to grieve, but the farmer simply said, “Bad luck? Good luck? Who knows?"
    In time relatives brought a very fine horse of great cost and fine breeding, left to the farmer by his father. All the villagers and neighbours gathered in delight with him to celebrate his good fortune, but he just said, "Bad luck? Good luck? Who knows?”
    One day the horse escaped into the hills and when all the farmer’s neighbours sympathized with the old man over his bad luck, the farmer replied, “Bad luck? Good luck? Who knows?”
    A week later the horse returned with a herd of wild horses from the hills and this time the neighbours congratulated the farmer on his good luck. His reply was, “Good luck? Bad luck? Who knows?”
    Then, when the farmer’s son was attempting to tame one of the wild horses, he fell off its back and broke his leg. Everyone thought this very bad luck. Not the farmer, whose only reaction was, “Bad luck? Good luck? Who knows?”
    Some weeks later the army marched into the village and conscripted every able-bodied youth they found there. When they saw the farmer’s son with his broken leg they let him off. Now was that good luck? Bad luck? Who knows?
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    That is a nice parable Catherine. What happens, happens. We can put whatever spin on it that we like, that is the story we tell ourselves.

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    Great story, catherine, and a good example of karma as/when defined as simply cause and effect/action and reaction. I try to remind myself that the notions of "good" and "bad" are often based on individual perspective at a specific point in time, and that everyone has their own perspectives from which they are determining what is "good" and what is "bad".
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    Quote Originally Posted by catherine View Post
    Here is one of my favorite parables--a common one, but this one by Anthony DeMello, SJ. I actually emailed this to my DH yesterday, because he was saying that his teeth were so bad that he had to have them all pulled last spring and he is now dealing with temporary ones [Bad luck?], and it's been hard throughout all of this to eat and he's lost 60 lbs (Good luck?)



    GOOD LUCK? BAD LUCK? WHO KNOWS?

    There once was a simple farmer who lived and struggled alongside his neighbours and friends, trying to exist and fulfil a peaceful life. One day news arrived from far away, that his old loving father had died. His neighbours gathered to grieve, but the farmer simply said, “Bad luck? Good luck? Who knows?"
    In time relatives brought a very fine horse of great cost and fine breeding, left to the farmer by his father. All the villagers and neighbours gathered in delight with him to celebrate his good fortune, but he just said, "Bad luck? Good luck? Who knows?”
    One day the horse escaped into the hills and when all the farmer’s neighbours sympathized with the old man over his bad luck, the farmer replied, “Bad luck? Good luck? Who knows?”
    A week later the horse returned with a herd of wild horses from the hills and this time the neighbours congratulated the farmer on his good luck. His reply was, “Good luck? Bad luck? Who knows?”
    Then, when the farmer’s son was attempting to tame one of the wild horses, he fell off its back and broke his leg. Everyone thought this very bad luck. Not the farmer, whose only reaction was, “Bad luck? Good luck? Who knows?”
    Some weeks later the army marched into the village and conscripted every able-bodied youth they found there. When they saw the farmer’s son with his broken leg they let him off. Now was that good luck? Bad luck? Who knows?
    I heard one version of that story where the farmer dies. When the neighbors come to commiserate with the widow over her loss, she makes the same reply.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LDAHL View Post
    I heard one version of that story where the farmer dies. When the neighbors come to commiserate with the widow over her loss, she makes the same reply.
    And I'm sure that would still be an appropriate response.
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    It will be very hard to unsee that working from home for the types of jobs that it is suitable for WORKED. The upside: less pollution, less fossil fuel use (if we REALLY wanted to be serious about this, work from home would very much be encouraged), less wear and tear on cars (I won't say road wear as that's mostly trucking, but there is less need for adding additional transit if the population on the road doesn't keep increasing all the time), more time for work-life balance that was wasted commuting.
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    And I'm sure that would still be an appropriate response.
    also always appropriate for someone grieving the death of a child, I mean bad things may have befallen the child if they lived.

    when they bombed Hiroshima: good luck, bad luck, who knows.

    I mean I think the parable might be fine for minor things, but it's inhumane for bigger things. In truth sure maybe nothing matters at all in some ultimate sense. Life or death (since death claims everything anyway whether it comes at 8 years old of childhood cancer or 99 years old in one's sleep one night). Human extinction or not, nuclear war or not, but it's inhumane to have any expectations of living that way.
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    I would like to think that there has been some reductions in disinformation and conspiracy theory. It seems like every other night there is a story in mainstream news of a dying patient or survival family who says, I or they should have believed things and gotten the vaccine. Popular social media sites have banned some of the most egregious. Maybe it has nudged the fact ball forward on issues like global warming. But, like the farmer story, who knows.

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