Quote Originally Posted by Simplemind View Post
Does T stand for Tyrant? Even as a passive one, for whatever reason you are all working harder on the friendship than she is. That only works for awhile before it starts to pinch. When you have asserted an idea she has shot it down. When you didn't drop it and she found out she decided to punish you. She was no longer confiding in you. Now the game is to make you chase and grovel.
Life is like a breath of fresh air without the T's of the world. Let..... her....... go....... she is a narcissist.
she is a narcissist?

I wouldn’t draw that conclusion from this situation. The friend may be self-centered. Or, she may not be very interested in maintaining a friendship and she doesn’t go out of her way to do it. But that isn’t narcissism.