We decided to change our plans somewhat and sell the paid for house out of state, so that we would not have to leave my mom at this time. We put it on the market and it sold in a day, with nine offers, and we took the cash offer and it closed in two weeks. Very, very speedy. So now our dilemma is what to do here--house prices have increased a LOT since we bought this one, less than a year ago.
DH wants to dump this house while market is good, so that we can get something we like better, closer to my mom's nursing home because it is a real haul to get there, around 2 hours each way. Unfortunately, the houses that meet this criteria are about double what we should spend if we are getting enough acreage to do what he wants to do.
So we either have to keep driving, stay where we are in a house we don't care for, buy something we can afford with little land until we sell this one, and then buy something--maybe keep that house as a rental?
Renting a place for us after selling is the sensible option but won't happen with DH, so we are thinking of making a contigent offer, contigent on sale of this house? But who would accept a contingent sale in this market?
Part of me wants to just hunker down here and just get out of the stress of house hunting for a while, like maybe a year. Prices here seem to be going down a little.
But I am not going to be comfortable selling with no place to go. Yet maybe that is what has to happen?
Feeling confused right now. But it is a relief to only have one house.