Something about holiday expectations leaves me on edge every year. We had planned to have a quiet meal at home complete with sides and homemade pie. Out of the blue, my SIL calls and invites us to their house which is wonderful except...they live six hours away on the other side of the mountain. That means a six hour drive over two mountain passes and six hours back - all in holiday traffic. Packing up food, getting the car ready, calling the petsitter, etc. I said we would strongly consider it depending on the weather and need to confirm ASAP. But now I feel guilty if we decline even though I think that's the best thing to do. What to do...??