My family was very dysfunctional, but they had decent jobs. Besides a few pieces of furniture, they left us kids nothing. In fact, DH and I probably kept my mom off Medicaid for 20 years.
They didn't want to be bothered with owning a house, so they rented. I keep hearing of people who get large sums of money from their parent's inheritances and have to confess that I'm a bit envious. Instead, we forked out tons of money to keep her off medicaid.
I know I must sound horrible. I just need to whine a little. DH's mother had a bit of inheritance, and left her house to DH and his 2 siblings. But they couldn't stand to sell the house, so my BIL is living in it. Hopefully my children will at least see part of that someday.
If I may ask.....what have your experiences with inheritances been? You don't need to talk about amounts.....just if you got one. Maybe parents have good intentions, and then they live so long that they use it all up?
Maybe I'm just holding a grudge. My mother died recently and I was going through some of her old papers today and was reminded that while we were struggling to pay for alot of her living expenses over the last 20 years, she was giving $800-1,000/yr to various charities. :0
Just needing to whine/vent a bit.