Well, we live in the midst of people who are extremely House Proud and I love that because I visit gorgeous Victorian mansions all the time. But the flip side is that our house, while once typical of the 'nabe here in that it is "under construction" (ha ha no activity for 10 years, but I digress), is now an oddity. I cling to my one friend who has a house in the same state as ours. Just about every other house is "done".
So when I plan to refresh our kitchen, which is in desperate need of it, everyone thinks "granite countertops." Ummm, no. While I could afford to pave my entire block with granite sidewalk if I chose to do that, I'm just not gonna spend the money. I want to paint the cabinents that we have (which are very nice, I love them--built by DH) and replace countertop--probably--and fix cracked tile on the floor. That's' about it. But that standard isn't in line with other kitchens around here! I am fine with that.