I have just downloaded (from the library) & am reading Resurrecting Sex, by Dr. Schnarch. I have been thinking about bringing up this topic, of sexuality and all its vagaries throughout life, for some time now.

I'm nearly 57, and menopause, as well as stepmotherhood & the stressors of financial & job uncertainty, have wrought hell on my sex life. I don't want to be sad about it anymore, and am not giving up on having a sex life, though I easily could. Inertia and the combination of feelings about it all just bum me out something fierce.

Ok, I said it all out loud. Not easy to do. What's your story?