My personal pet peeve: when people refer to afternoon tea and call it High Tea, thinking that the High refers to High Society or High Class. High Tea is actually supper, not in the afternoon, the high refers to the table. A high table is a kitchen table, as opposed to the coffee table (low table) used for afternoon tea. High Tea usually includes a hearty meat dish as well.
That pet peeve out of the way, are there any fans of afternoon tea? I love to have those itty bitty sandwiches and scones. I have a whole collection of recipes and fun ways to prepare things for tea, but I don't have any girlfriends who are really into this. I once worked at a place and a co-worker and I would end the week with a pot of tea and often some goodies in the lunchroom. Styrofoam was not allowed, you had to bring a real cup if you attended. We wound up attracting a few others, and I made some good friends that I might not otherwise have made.
A sort-of local herb farm did a couple of teas last year that I attended that were completely over the top with the variety of items and well executed preparation. They did a nice twist on the cucumber sandwich, where they spread some herbed cream cheese on white bread that had the crusts removed. The bread had the point/corner facing up, and they placed cucumber spears and red pepper sticks vertically- they then rolled up the sandwich and cut it in 2 pieces at the horizontal. It looked like a beautiful flower arrangement, but it was fairly simple to assemble once you knew the trick.
I've done tea at the Ritz in Boston, at the Grand Floridian at DisneyWorld and a few other places that I forget the names of. My poor husband is a good sport when I ask him to go when we are on vacation. I know its not his thing, though, and it takes away a little of my excitement.