I live in a University town of about 115,000 in the Southeast. My neighborhood is only a few blocks from the University. It's perfect for me, since I'm in Grad School here. I can walk to work/classes. In the other direction, I can walk to my credit union, an organic grocery store, a drug store, a bike shop, two coffee shops, and several restaurants. My neighbors are mixed students and older people who work at the University. And they're friendly, for the most part. Rent is reasonable. I miss having a garden, but I can put my collection of flowers, vegetables, and herbs in pots on the lawn in front of the building and the landlord doesn't care.
Public transportation could be better in this town. I can take the bus downtown, or to shopping, but it's a hassle. Still, I drive very little now that I've moved to this neighborhood. There's an awesome Farmer's Market on Saturday and Wednesday, lots of music and other cultural stuff, great bookstores, restaurants, and a beautiful Botanical Garden a couple of miles away where I love to walk. The town is fairly diverse. I really like my neighborhood and my town. This is the first time I've lived in-town and I wasn't sure I would like it. But I'm really content here. I'm not sure I'd want to live in this neighborhood forever - I really do miss having a garden, and no way I can afford a house in the neighborhood. But I could see staying in this town for the rest of my life.