The past couple of weeks have been absolutely crazy for me and I have not been here as much as I would like to be. But I am back now and I do have some good news.....I have a new job developer at Workforce Development here in Phoenix who thinks he can get me federal money to learn web design.....I know I posted this last Spring but it seems as if I have been reassigned job developers as the last one did not follow through with her end of the deal - didn't follow through with her end of the job development plan and started not returning calls. I did not understand what the dynamic was until I went back to the Workforce Development Center this Wednesday for an appointment with my new job developer. I saw the old one in her cubicle as I passed by on my way out of the building when I was done with my appointment - she made a very dismissive hand/wrist gesture to me implying distaste for my sexuality and then it all clicked and made sense.
I am really glad I covered this ground with the new Job Development person, as after I sat down one of his questions was what do I feel holds me back in getting hired with potential employers. So I brought up the sexual orientation thing - and was relieved that it seems he will have no problems in dealing with me and that he agrees I am an interested in an area - web design - in which this is not going to be an issue overall.
So I am doing the footwork to get the training money once again and am hoping for the best. We shall see. There is a part of me that is really disgusted with my first job developer but making a big deal of it is probably not going to serve me well and I am so ready to move in a new direction it is not funny - esp. as this is an area in which I can be self employed. Rob