My husband and I are at a point where we'd like to start a family. However, we keep postponing it because we're always thinking we have to accomplish certain things before we do. For example, I'd like to become more established in my new freelance business (who knows how long that'll take!), we'd like to see a bit more of the world together, etc.
Although I want to achieve these things, I also do not want to wait much longer to have our first kid (I'm 30). But at the same time, it's going to be me who has to put my career on hold in one way or another (my work situation is more flexible than DH's) and I'm not sure if putting it on the backburner now will hamper my prospects in the future. Theoretically, I have family who could babysit if I wanted to work, but maybe I won't want to work at all once I've got a kiddo - there are so many unknowns!
I also find it hard not to approach the matter from a perspective that assumes that we will effectively be housebound and not be able to incorporate kids into the things we already enjoy (namely travel). How can I alter this perspective?
So I'm just wondering: did you go through this mental turmoil when considering starting a family?? Do you have any sage advice? Thank you so much