Probably when the young adult kids come home for the winter holidays. We do save ahead & have a budget. We take them out to dinner, and see a few shows. That I work in theatre means I get comps or half price tickets, so we get to take them to some really good performances. We give each of them one or two things, the rest of their holiday treats with us are experiences, really good, special meals (at home or out), and quality family time.