Some clarifying points:
DH and I both have risk factors that mean we would probably not do fare if we got Covid.
I am not concerned about the well-being of the A-Vs; I just don't want them to get me or my family sick.
We all had our boosters in October.
I realize how bad this sounds, but as far as Mom goes, I'm mostly concerned that if she got sick, she would give it to someone else.