Originally Posted by
Jane v2.0
The sugar daddy thing repulses me--it's basically prostitution called something else--and I've always hated the idea of living off of someone else anyway. I think overt hooking is much more honorable. But again, individuals have choices.
Having a sugar daddy and keeping him happy is better than prostitution because you only have one sex partner instead of a different random guy(s) every night, which reduces the odds of you getting VD or going to bed with a guy who seems ok but ends up beating and abusing you during the night. It's also better because you and he learn how to turn each other on the most easily, and you learn how much and how long you should tease him before giving him what he wants. That creates a more pleasurable experience for both of you, compared with sleeping with a bunch of different guys.
And even though it was very risque at the time old movies have absolutely touted the sugar daddy relationship. Examples:
Girl: "Are those diamonds real."
Mae West: "Yes"
Girl: "Oh, my goodness."
Mae West: "Goodness had nothing to do with it, dearie."
And Let's not forget "Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend" https://youtu.be/knLd8bfeWtI?t=123