I noticed some interesting comments on this topic in our local newspaper. An older woman wrote in and said she was raised in a home where their father would make them change their clothing if he thought it was too revealing or "sexy." She said that women today send mixed messages and don't act like "ladies" anymore therefore they aren't respected by men. Younger women wrote in and said that it is not their duty to dress a certain way just to curtail male impulses. I can recall as a 9 yr old finding some Playboys in the alley and being totally surprised that women would want to be that way. DH and I had a lengthy conversation about boobs and their intended purpose. Native women sat around nursing babies and men didn't get "tittilated" as they do now. Lots of societal conditioning since then I suppose. We are all a bit confused - right?