Nothing wrong with looking! Not anymore...?

[pinkytoe]

I must have been naive, but I never even considered a man's income. I was attracted to men who had a passion for something (and still am). And many times it takes a lot of fortitude and ambition to make our passions happen which is also an attractive trait.

[JaneV2.0]

I never thought my beloved had a passion for anything, until I realized his passion is people.
It never occurred to me that was a thing; the idea is foreign to me.

[iris lilies]

I must have been naive, but I never even considered a man's income. I was attracted to men who had a passion for something (and still am). And many times it takes a lot of fortitude and ambition to make our passions happen which is also an attractive trait.

All of thatbis true, and well said.

Its not that I focused on how much anyne made, but I will admit to prioitizing any potenial mate trait included being sensible about money. And as it turns out, I got someone who is extremely frugal, a good thing in the long run for me.