Today my sister (now co-trustee that my dad has passed) is picking up the last few items from the consignment shop and Wednesday we go to do my dad final tax return. Once taxes are paid the rest of the funds can be distributed. I am thankful that even though there were some strong emotions everybody walked through this process feeling as good as possible. We are stronger now than we ever were when our parents were alive playing favorites. Totally unexpected based on past behavior. I watched them change considerably knowing the financial safety net was gone and they were now truly on their own.