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flowerseverywhere
1-5-15, 11:20am
I am an atheist. It has been a long journey to get to where I am. I have peace, contentment and have experienced great joy in giving to others.

I recently spent pent a month traveling around Thailand. This is a very poor third world country with a mainly Buddist population. All around me I saw happy grateful people. In the morning, a village knows when the monks will be passing through and they line up on the side of the road to share what they have. They come out of their shacks and give rice, cooked dishes, desserts, water, money and all kinds of food as an offering. The monks then pray and chant. In the temples people took off their shoes and kneeled before statues of the Buddah and gave offerings. On New Years day people gave the monks new robes. I was in a city and the Monks had to literally use shopping carts to haul the donations away. They also had elaborate arrangements made of marigolds, lotus flowers and banana leaves that they left. Other people tucked money into the offerings. The monks, who wear simple garments and have no possessions distribute this to the poor.

Through the the country I saw only one beggar. He was in a city and had been disfigured by fire. As we passed through the countryside we saw people selling fruit and crafts. People raised chickens, grew food, and lived the ultimate simple life. I loved seeing kids kicking a ball, swimming in the river, and generally being happy. I have heard the same thing about Cambodia. We spent some time with a couple who had just travelled there and were amazed at the spirit and joy fullness there.

my moment came one morning when I walked at sunrise up a hill to a temple and made an offering. I gathered what traditionally is given and offered it to the young monk, he stopped and recited a long chanting prayer. It gave me chills to see such gratitude and thanks.

Later, I had a chance to speak with a monk about the faith and the life of the monk. I think all religions basically say the same things. Don't do bad stuff, and do good stuff. But what struck me was the tolerance and generosity that was shown. Truly walking the walk.

In in a world that throughout time has had people use organized religion to twist things to evoke hate, fear and violence, it was truly a spiritual experience to me so see so much selflessness, tolerance and love for fellow man. I hope I can keep this feeling in my heart and soul.

catherine
1-5-15, 11:47am
Wow, what a wonderful experience! I'm so happy for you, and thank you for sharing. We think we are do "advanced" here, but some people, and some countries are truly richer.

TxZen
1-5-15, 11:47am
That was peaceful. Thank you for sharing.

Teacher Terry
1-5-15, 2:28pm
What a wonderful experience! I actually was in Thailand in 1998 & it is a beautiful country. WE went in NOv one of the coldest months but it was still 90 with high humidity. I realized from that trip that I can not travel to hot places-just can't deal with the heat. Also the smell of the air/water pollution was really unpleasant. Trying to find a bathroom was also the impossible mission. Hopefully, you did not have all of these same issues.

Yarrow
1-5-15, 6:05pm
This was so uplifting to read. What a wonderful spiritual experience.

Thank you for sharing.

wren
1-5-15, 8:00pm
@flowerseverywhere, Thank you for this beautiful, inspiring post.

Blackdog Lin
1-5-15, 9:06pm
I generally skip this particular forum, it being so outside my.....inner being, I guess.

I am so glad I read it today. Your post was wonderful, and uplifting, and gave me food for thought. Thank you for posting.

ctg492
1-5-15, 9:33pm
Thank you for sharing.
I have been reading a great deal about Buddhism, truely interesting.

Simplemind
1-5-15, 9:40pm
Lovely, just lovely. I have to admit that the simpler I make my life the happier I am for it. Your experience beautifully illustrates why.

iris lilies
1-6-15, 1:41am
That's so nice to hear!

Thailand is a wonderful place.I loved all of the cats in the temples. I guess they are kept fed although they were quite skinny, but so are the people.

flowerseverywhere
1-6-15, 3:45am
Thanks for your comments. Bathrooms were somewhat of an issue, but mostly western style and most had toilet paper and a place to wash your hands. There were occasional smells.

it just struck me that these simple living beings were so happy and spiritual. I am going to start a thread challenge, do one nice thing a day. It might give us all ideas to be kinder gentler souls.

sweetana3
1-6-15, 7:02am
We also just returned from Thailand. The people there work so hard. There is still a lot of community/village work that is done as a group. The women were out harvesting when we stopped so only the "grannies" were taking care of the smallest kids and weaving.

Teacher Terry
1-6-15, 1:47pm
It sounds like the bathrooms have greatly improved since 1998. Even in Bangkok what we faced were holes in the ground with tile surrounding it & water swirling around your ankles. You were supposed to stand over to do your business. No tp or water to wash. Plus they made you pay. After that we went back to the hotel to do our business & tried not to drink much when we were out although with the heat it was hard to do. I also loved the temples & many things like the reclining Buddha which took up a few rooms. We stayed in a very fancy hotel & the guy that took us to our room told us not to use the hotel water to brush our teeth but pointed to bottled water from India & said "brush teeth."

sweetana3
1-6-15, 3:09pm
There are toilets/restrooms most anywhere but nothing like an ordinary American would expect. Usually (not 100%) there was one sit down toilet for handicapped. Flushing usually a tub of water with a huge dipper. Not hugely clean but never as dirty as some American public toilets. Bigger gas stations along the hiway almost always had restrooms (and convenience store and coffee shop) with at least one sit down toilet. Toilet paper was hit or usually miss. I always had my own toilet paper in my purse.

Never use the water from the tap for anything but washing the outside of the body. Hotels, even smaller ones, have bottled water as part of the room. This is a good rule for almost any country. Make sure the bottle is sealed. We travel a lot and have not had any digestion problems by following simple rules.

Our big issue was that Bangkok had such polluted air. We were both using our asthma medication every time we went outside. Still would like to go back and visit several areas we missed.

Float On
1-6-15, 3:22pm
(Side note with all this toilet talk: I had a professor in college who collected toilet paper from around the world. Quite a funny collection to see the various types all in one place.)

Beautiful post. As a 'believer' I find more to believe when I'm out experiencing something.

Teacher Terry
1-7-15, 4:21pm
Traveling to other countries is really fun & it is awesome to see how other people live. Besides Thailand I have been to Italy & Poland twice each. My next trip will be to Ireland. My kids have been many more places then I. Their last trip they went to India, Vietnam & Laos.

happystuff
1-7-15, 9:17pm
What a wonderful post! Thank you so much for sharing.

Polliwog
1-7-15, 10:49pm
Very inspiring post. Just goes to show that happiness isn't about money.

pinkytoe
1-8-15, 12:25pm
We have so many priorities backwards here, don't we? I found the following simple list to be helpful:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/sri-sri-ravi-shankar/inner-peace_b_2399040.html

happystuff
1-8-15, 5:16pm
Nice list, pinkytoe. Thanks for posting it.