talking to a new guy, hmmm

[Zoe Girl]

So I have been talking and texting with a new guy I met through DharmaMatch. That generally means a better fit. Regular sites get guys who have a lot of questions about what I do with my life and not as much connection. So he is funny in a similar way. Like he texted me in the morning asking where the divine ended and the human being started, I answered we only think there is a difference and was wondering was gender a snowflake was. Not seriously academic but fun. You can see that not everyone would 'get' this conversation.

He lives about 2 hours away but is coming to the city this Wednesday. If he can stay in town until I am done with work then there is a good chance of meeting in person. I am really hoping there is a spark in person as well,

Not much to tell yet but I am eeking out of my comfort zone. :|(

[ApatheticNoMore]

There is a possibility this ANM girl is (permanently?) off the market, so to speak. Time will tell. There is no typical guy on regular sites (it was a regular site), it's all random chance, but targeted sites might improve the odds, I don't know. Yes it's local, not long distance (2 hours isn't really that long in your case though). Yes there is profound compatibility. No that doesn't mean it's always easy or that there has been a super easy period (in fact initially it started out incredibly hard for various reasons - almost "why is life so hard?" hard - but ...).

[ZanaHart]

One of my relatives had 20 very good years with her hubby.... he passed this fall. They met online back in the earliest days.