fabulous talk on loneliness

[Zoe Girl]

Here is an amazing ted talk on loneliness, I really related. For one thing I realize that when I have had a lot of loneliness going on I tend to be less skilled at social interactions. I learned that from the talk but it makes sense. I have had 2 friendships where I knew they were done or significantly changing to very low contact and I kinda freaked out. Which of course killed any last chance of maintaining the friendship (if that was even possible based on the other person). This talk really gets into the brain based reasons for that to happen, and I can make more sense of what is going on. But just a reminder to all of us to reach out a little. You never know what simply asking a co-worker to have coffee with you or spending some time talking to another member of a club for a few minutes will mean to them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_0hxl03JoA0

[Teacher Terry]

When I am interested in being friends with someone I will invite them over for dinner or out for lunch, etc. Now that I am semi-retired I have plenty of time so if I am walking the dog and someone wants to talk for a half hour I take the time.

[razz]

Interesting talk to watch. I have seen at times that when someone becomes self-centred, it is an indication often of loneliness. I remember once many years ago, feeling really down and walking down a street, someone smiled at me, a total stranger, but the lift that I got from that simple exchange has made me smile and greet everyone I meet when walking the dog, waiting in line or anywhere else. Most times, I get a great response but sometimes, nothing. It is my gift to the world and I have played my part paying forward that gift I needed so long ago.
Thanks for posting this.