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freshstart
9-21-16, 5:05pm
I am throwing my first party all by myself in 14yrs! I threw parties with ex-BF, did kid parties alone and do family functions but this is my first one for my work friends. The last one I did alone was in '02 when I bought my townhouse!

I dreaded de-cluttering the family areas but shockingly my dad helped. He got rid of a 4ft tall stack of magazines. He went around fixing little things and touched up the paint where the dogs had scratched. The kitchen, with only the bare minimum on the countertops, is now a thing of beauty. I am keeping the LR, DR and kitchen clutter-free if it kills me.

My mom is often up in the middle of the night and I woke up to find the kitchen cluttered with silk flower arrangements that are ancient, paper products so old they are yellowed and tons of candles. WTH? Turns out she got into the cabinet above the fridge to drag this stuff out. I have no idea how such a sick person pulls off these feats. I asked her nicely if I have to put the silk flowers and ancient orange candles out and she very nicely responded "no" and did not get upset.

My dad didn't want me walking around BJs and the grocery alone, so he helped me shop. It was a pleasure working with him this past week. They are both really happy I'm doing this, coming out of my comfort zone. I go to parties but it's way past my turn to host so this is a good thing.

I'm just doing chili, corn bread and a cheesecake, soda, beer and wine. But boy, that added up fast. I have been extremely good with my money lately so this is worth it. People are bringing dishes so that will help. I'm trying that Bota Box wine, I read a good review on it and it's inexpensive. Hope it's ok.

I can't wait for tomorrow!

razz
9-21-16, 5:15pm
Have fun! Glad to hear that you are doing this

rosarugosa
9-21-16, 5:17pm
It's great that everything is falling into place. I hope you have a wonderful time!

nswef
9-21-16, 5:23pm
Have fun Freshstart!

Teacher Terry
9-21-16, 6:01pm
That sounds like lots of fun. Enjoy!

JaneV2.0
9-21-16, 6:49pm
Your parents are very deat; I'm so glad your father wrangled his depression and temper successfully.

The party will be a smashing success for sure.

freshstart
9-21-16, 8:17pm
thx.

my dad has been amazingly mellow since being hospitalized for heart failure. Maybe that scared him into looking at his behavior towards the people he loves.

catherine
9-21-16, 8:21pm
Have a great time, freshstart!

iris lilies
9-21-16, 9:51pm
It sounds great!

Gardenarian
9-21-16, 10:03pm
Wish we could join you :)
Have a great time!

Zoe Girl
9-21-16, 10:08pm
How wonderful, it sounds so sweet that your parents helped you with their cleaning. Sounds like great food and time

freshstart
9-23-16, 1:01pm
it went great! Just the right number of people to all fit on the deck. It was so good to see the old faces of people I held dear. So much food that they brought, I over bought. And it was easy, I'm not going to wait a decade to do it again.

razz
9-23-16, 1:36pm
Thanks for the update. So glad it was a success.

catherine
9-23-16, 2:26pm
Fantastic! So glad you had a chance to catch up with your friends!

nswef
9-23-16, 3:08pm
Freshstart, what a great thing you did! Congratulations and enjoy all the memories of it as you plan the next one!

Teacher Terry
9-23-16, 4:15pm
so glad it went well. Having a party does not have to be a ton of work. People often bring things and you can keep it simple with the menu. People just enjoy getting together and the company. WE have people over a lot.

beckyliz
9-27-16, 5:02pm
Great news! sounds like you had a wonderful time.

freshstart
9-27-16, 6:20pm
I got great feedback so I'll do it again soon. We're a group that once you get us together we talk for hours and hours, it's just getting somebody to agree to host and track down 35 people who no longer work together that keeps us from doing it.