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Zoe Girl
10-25-17, 11:20pm
Today, you have GOT to be f-ing kidding me. My job coach in calling in a few minutes so I will be brief and have support. I also called a colleague who shares the supervisor and met her and her staff at happy hour. I love all her staff, so I am in a good mood overall but my brain is twisted in knots.

I am currently hiring a great staff that is also a parent at another school. I have talked it through with the new staff and she is okay with the hours and with leaving at 5:30 to pick up her son. She just scheduled her fingerprints on Monday so I am almost ready to call my families off the wait list. Meanwhile my problem staff today told me she was going to quit in the middle of my busiest time of the day because of a schedule misunderstanding that she didn't like how I handled.. We talked later, she is not quitting and I told her to never try to do that during my busiest time of the program when I am responsible for up to 65 children. So getting this new staff started means that I can coach the issue staff out. (I think she was surprised when I did not react when she told me she was quitting, I just said okay).

My friend who runs the other school called me late today. She said our supervisor called the new hire and is sending her to the other school. I have had many conversations with him about this, I basically told him my program cannot go any longer short staffed. I am doing all the hiring work and if I get another staff I would be happy to send the new hire to the other school where her son attends but right now I cannot do that. He has been telling my friend since last week that I know the staff is going to her school, which is NOT true.

So I am writing in my journal to try and separate out my own personal issues from this work one so I can follow up. I am working out if I want to call him or his supervisor directly tomorrow. I want another person at this conversation since there so much misunderstandings.

Zoe Girl
10-26-17, 12:43am
Just having a wonderful but freaky moment, Got off the phone with my job coach and she had me send her my resume because her school is a charter school looking for a teacher. Charters are much more flexible about requirements to teach and they are into mindfulness and restorative justice, 2 of my highly qualified areas. I already sent her the resume and we are meeting in the morning.

rosarugosa
10-26-17, 5:01am
Oh ZG, that would be so wonderful if another opportunity opens up for you!

Chicken lady
10-26-17, 6:12am
Oh Zoe girl, I hope this works out for you!

Tammy
10-26-17, 8:56am
That is excellent. It's time for you to just quit and hopefully without notice - Because you already have another job lined up.

That's a crazy place that you work for.

danna
10-26-17, 8:57am
Sending Really Good Thoughts your Way!

catherine
10-26-17, 9:00am
Wow! The Universe opening up for you in your time of need! Fingers crossed, ZG!

dado potato
10-26-17, 10:13am
Whew! Could be a big change in your working conditions coming your way! I wish you a manageable number of surprises, but only of the happy and rewarding sort!

Tybee
10-26-17, 10:14am
Nice! Fingers crossed for a job offer, ZG!!!!

ToomuchStuff
10-26-17, 10:24am
Up the food chain. Communication apparently is broke down and needs to happen in front of their supervisor, so someone else hears you clearly.
You may not get your wish to have the person, but matters get put on notice.

Float On
10-26-17, 10:36am
I sure hope something new works out for you. I'm always amazed you've stuck it out this long. I know locally with the Boys and Girls Club and the YMCA's after school programs they go through an incredible amount of turn-over of staff every year. It's not an easy job.

Zoe Girl
10-26-17, 10:57am
Thank you all, I am kinda in a 'wow' mode over the quick reaching out with a possibility of a change. I know that this may not be the place I end up however I feel this lightening in my being simply because I think someone may want me and my skills! Maybe you need to go through years of not getting interviews or jobs to have this experience, really did a number on my confidence.

And I texted my supervisor telling him we need to meet in person today or tomorrow. He is checking his schedule so I think he will make it happen. I am not sure about being able to bring in another person but at least I can have this meeting.

KayLR
10-26-17, 1:58pm
" Maybe you need to go through years of not getting interviews or jobs to have this experience, really did a number on my confidence."

Boy, I hear that! It's brutal.

Good luck!

Zoe Girl
10-31-17, 9:41am
So little update that a colleague and I are working together to get our needs met at our 2 sites, which means that i do NOT have to work 12 hours on Friday. Also just by bonding and sharing i feel like i am not getting fired any minute.