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Chicken lady
11-21-18, 10:44pm
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Teacher Terry
11-22-18, 12:27am
I am so sorry. Really scary situation. Hoping for the best.

beckyliz
11-23-18, 12:39pm
Hoping things turn out the for best, Chicken Lady.

Gardnr
11-23-18, 2:53pm
Today was the last day he was allowed to attend his old school. His mom has legal physical custody from Friday at 4 until Monday at 4. Monday is a school day. Under the homeschooling agreement they were supposed to change the physical custody agreement so that his dad would have him from 3:30 Friday to 7 a.m. Monday, and ❤️Dd agreed to let him stay with dad this weekend, but that agreement was never signed.

So if I understand this correctly, DD agreed not to have her son until Monday 0700? They may well be traveling for the holiday then?

Are all of their agreements written/signed? Is this a divorce decree agreement?

Yes, I'm reading only the facts as written, without emotion attached. i haven't looked at my phone since yesterday afternoon.......

My emotional reaction would be quite different.

Reyes
11-23-18, 5:37pm
At this point he is not enrolled in any school? Is that right? So by default at this point he'd be homeschooling?

Zoe Girl
11-23-18, 8:44pm
I am feeling for you CL, I have many families working these things out and then of course my own history. Truancy laws can be serious, what state is he in? Just have your daughter document everything by text, email etc. Follow up every verbal agreement, It is a sucky way to live but she is in the long haul here.

Teacher Terry
11-25-18, 8:13pm
Divorce is hard on kids. Hope everything works out for the little guy.

lmerullo
11-27-18, 3:05pm
Oh no, CL! Hope they can work this out in a positive way for all.

Teacher Terry
11-27-18, 7:46pm
I wouldn’t have wanted my kids to be homeschooled. I would imagine it will end up in mediation if a agreement can’t be reached. I wanted my kids out in the world.

Teacher Terry
11-27-18, 9:17pm
CL, it certainly sounds like he needs a alternative to regular school. With all the professional recommendations and his unique needs I am surprised that the dad is fighting it. Having a 4th grader hate school is not good. They have too many school years left.

Yppej
11-27-18, 10:01pm
A guardian ad litem may be needed.

Teacher Terry
11-28-18, 7:25pm
Yes I didn’t understand either. When you have that many professionals making the same recommendations I would listen too. The

Teacher Terry
11-28-18, 7:57pm
That’s worrisome. When is he due back to his mom?

Teacher Terry
11-28-18, 10:13pm
I feel so bad for all of you. Hugs:))

JaneV2.0
12-2-18, 7:37pm
He seems to enjoy inflicting harm, so he's someone to be wary of.
I'm so sorry you're all going through this. That poor kid...

I hope this is resolved soon.

Teacher Terry
12-2-18, 7:58pm
I really feel for all of you. So sad when parents can’t do what is best for their child.

Tybee
12-3-18, 9:46am
Deleted my posts, CL. Hang in there!

Float On
12-3-18, 10:30am
Deleting.


Probably a good idea. It's amazing how people find things that are posted and then use that against each other. I'll be praying this all works out for the good.

iris lilies
12-3-18, 11:23am
No posts here quote your words except Floaton just this moment. So, just delete your own posts and there will be no evidence of your words.

JaneV2.0
12-3-18, 12:31pm
And, if you can, discreetly keep us updated.

Teacher Terry
12-3-18, 12:45pm
You could put a tracker on something he always brings with him. If he has keys put it on the key ring for example