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rosarugosa
4-17-21, 12:50pm
Here is the short version:

We had to put Silvio the cat to sleep in early March, which was very painful for us.
A week later, our niece was killed in a terrible motor vehicle accident. She was 39 years old, and left behind a husband who was crazy about her and 4 little kids.
Two weeks after that, my MIL died. She had been in a nursing home for 2 years and was 88 years old, so it wasn't entirely unexpected, but certainly a loss to us nevertheless.


So March really sucked. Some brighter things in April:

DH got a brand-new, not-at-all-frugal 2021 Ford Bronco Sport. It replaces his 2007 Saturn Sky, which we had also bought new in 2006. That was the least practical car on the planet, but he loved it and he did keep it for 14 years. The Bronco will be a more practical vehicle and we will no doubt keep it for a long time and at least we're not financing it. I know this can hardly be considered a smart money move, but oh well.
DH is also quitting his part-time job at the hospital. He's not enjoying it any longer, and I think we're both really feeling that "life is short" mindset for obvious reasons right now. I told him to go ahead and quit and we can make it work. So hopefully I'll be more active on the Frugals thread going forward. I picked up some library books the other day, and DH said it was great that I could get so much of what I want to read from the library. I told him I would be offsetting the cost of his new vehicle one library book at a time. ;)

razz
4-17-21, 1:08pm
Life does have its stuff - ups and some really tragic unexpected downs especially the loss of your niece so sending condolences on all of your March losses.
It does make one take a fresh look at our own lives so your DH stepping back from his part-time job is understandable.

I have found that my spending has gone down a lot due to the restrictions due to covid. I actually forgot my password for my CC as I have simply tapped for any purchases. Today's service maintenance trip to the Toyota was higher than the usual tapping limit amount of $200. I finally recalled it but the cashier had already worked around it.

herbgeek
4-17-21, 1:18pm
So sorry Rosa for all your losses.

Teacher Terry
4-17-21, 1:24pm
Rosa, I am so very sorry. Your niece dying young and having 4 kids is especially heartbreaking.

pinkytoe
4-17-21, 1:33pm
My condolences for your losses. There is that old saying that "bad things happen in threes". And then "what doesn't kill us makes us stronger."

Yppej
4-17-21, 1:35pm
Wishing you peace, resilience, and more brighter things ahead.

dado potato
4-17-21, 1:58pm
Adding my condolences ... wishing you peace and courage in this difficult time.

catherine
4-17-21, 2:03pm
Rosa, I am so very sorry for your losses.

iris lilies
4-17-21, 2:10pm
Rosa that is a lot of bad stuff.

continue to check out those library books and refer good titles to us!

frugal-one
4-17-21, 2:28pm
Sorry for your losses and glad to hear life is on the upswing.

Tybee
4-17-21, 3:17pm
Rosa, my condolences on the loss of your loved ones. May life get better quickly.

SteveinMN
4-17-21, 7:18pm
Rosa, that was one bad March! My condolences. At least life sounds like it's on the upswing now.

early morning
4-17-21, 7:26pm
So sorry, Rosa - that really is a lot of rough stuff to deal with. Hoping for solace for you and your family.

Gardnr
4-17-21, 7:35pm
I'm so very sorry Rosa for all the family loss in March. May you and hubster find what you need to move through grieving together (or alone as it may be).

rosarugosa
4-18-21, 7:02am
Thanks for the kind thoughts everyone. I'm very fond of my SLF family.

nswef
4-18-21, 10:49am
Oh Rosa, What a dreadful month. You have all my sympathy and hope for some peace. Take care of yourself and keep reading!

happystuff
4-18-21, 11:19am
Rosa, I'm so sorry for your losses. Prayers going out to the family and friends as well.

Tradd
4-18-21, 5:07pm
Rosa, so sorry to hear this. You all are in my prayers.

KayLR
4-19-21, 12:23pm
My heart goes out to your family, esp. your niece's husband and kids. How tragic.

I'm inspired by you and your husband's recent decisions.

beckyliz
4-19-21, 3:08pm
Adding my condolences, Rosa. Enjoy your extra time with your husband.

SiouzQ.
4-20-21, 10:54am
So very tragic about your niece, sending my sincere condolences to you and your extended family.

ejchase
6-30-21, 8:54pm
Oh, Rosarugosa, I just saw your initial post. I'm so sorry about these terrible losses.

rosarugosa
7-1-21, 5:44am
Thank you.