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littlebittybobby
11-24-22, 12:12am
Okay---I have no idea. That's why I'm asking you kids. Hope that helps you some. Thankk Mee. This should go on for at least 400 replies. Yup.

mschrisgo2
11-24-22, 11:22pm
First, decide if it’s really Your problem, or if it belongs to someone else.

jp1
11-25-22, 10:22pm
First, decide if it’s really Your problem, or if it belongs to someone else.

Absolutely. What’s the saying? Not my circus?

I had a friend in college who is a good person. Very generous. Very loving. But holy crap. Her life was all drama. Which made it exhausting to be around her on a regular basis. Every day of her life was either the best day ever or the worst crisis ever. (I suspect she may have untreated bipolar but I’m not a shrink, so who knows.) Several years ago she friended me on Facebook and it turns out that she’s still exactly the same. I had to unfollow her posts. Once every few months I’ll look them up and read through the whipsaw of up and down and may even comment on a few but I just can’t have that energy in my life on a daily basis.