Going to a Celebration of one's life

[boss mare]

DH and I have been invited to one... Someone we know, their father died What is the difference between this and a memorial? Do we bring flowers? This person is not a close close friend but a friend nonetheless. DH got a kick being around thier father and thought he was a hoot

[Mrs-M]

Difference between the two? No difference. Celebrations of life and memorials are gatherings that are remembrances on a causal scale. Dress code is relaxed, and flowers need not be considered.

[razz]

Take your memories of the individual whose life is being celebrated and share them with the members of the family. There will be photos and physical memorials of their life - any awards, spcial interests, etc - on display.
It actually can be quite illuminating and enjoyable to see the impact that one quiet person can have on a community over a lifetime.