Thinking of Leaving The Forum

[heydude]

I have learned so much and been able to say so many things on here.

I am thinking it has run its course. I may take a break or leave.

[rosarugosa]

I think that would be a shame, although it is certainly your choice. Perhaps just visit less often? What about helping answer questions or passing your wisdom along to newbies who join the Forum?

[razz]

Not sure of the the purpose of your post, heydude, but members have come and gone and returned as long as I have been a member since May, 2003 on the SLN forums. Life happens and each of us adjusts and readjusts as needed. Have a great 2013.

[Mrs-M]

My first question, Heydude, why? You bring tons of fun to the forum! I LOVE your perspective on things!!! Which of course means that I enjoy your company immensely!

I, myself, have taken a few, off-and-on breaks from the forum over the years, some of those hiatuses, the result of outside influences, while other hiatuses, the result of feeling like a much needed rest was in order, but I've always remained steadfast in my commitment to be an involved member.

There have been a few times where I, too, had made-up my mind to depart (for good), but I re-examined those thoughts and ideas after certain members contacted me to express their disapproval over my possible leave, so I trekked on, much to my delight. (P.S. Thank you to everyone who disproved of, and didn't allow me to leave)! :)

And, one other thing I want you to think about Re: leaving, is how far you've come as a result of this rich community. When I signed-up as a member, way back in 2006, LOL!, I still smoked... gosh... no I didn't..... YES... I DID! So I could be found logged-in on the SLN, smoking a cigarette and sipping my coffee! I also had little ones crawling/toddling around, and, it wasn't uncommon for me to have a baby, sometimes two, settled-in on my lap, as I typed threads and posts.

My point being, even with a whirlwind of excitement in the home (at the time), with all sorts of minute-by-minute interruptions, I never gave up on my daily bible study, that bible study being, the SL Forum! I've learned so much from this forum, and as Rosarugosa, mentioned, it would be such a shame to loose you. Really, it would.

Lastly, I've grown to look for certain members whenever I'm logged-in. Members like you, Heydude. We've all come so far, building this community and making it better, and now that we've reached a point of comfort and security, we all need each other. Besides, were one big family.

I'd be broken if you left.

[bunnys]

Mrs-M--so this is your holy text? Hey, it works. That was a nice post you posted. I have to agree with something I think you said earlier--that it would be nice if this forum had @ least 2x as many regular posters. More bodies = more unique ideas.

And Heydude, you are certainly a unique idea. If someone said something that upset you, it will pass. I have been upset by things said to me and I'm certain I've said things that upset others. Remember: Big Picture!

[Jilly]

Mrs-M, you are the nicest person. Ever.

And, I agree about how things affect us. I have issues all the time, but just as in my regular life, I try to let things go, even when it is really difficult. Besides, I am usually the only person who has the same thoughts or ideas or even agrees with me. I post when I am feeling brave and think I have something of value to add to the dialogue, but mostly I keep my mouth/fingers shut.

I often have something I would like to share, but unlike you I lack the courage to put myself out there. Just saying.

[Float On]

I hope it's just a break. I've sort of been on one myself.

[gimmethesimplelife]

I have enjoyed your posts and also hope you will reconsider.....or maybe just take a break and come back.

Gotta say this past Spring, when my Mom had her surgery recovery and just far too much was going on all at the same time I almost left too as I felt so overwhelmed with everything.....I'm glad I stayed on now. I often glean some gems here that really make me think. Rob

[ToomuchStuff]

Breaks are good, looking around at/for other forums may be as well, since it can give a different perspective. I mentioned myself, that the lack of posts and knowledge, from the old forum, means this place is going to have a hard time getting new members, as it won't be found as easily by search engines, when one starts out. (I basically found here, by finding out about YMOYL)
I have been looking at some other frugal forums as well.

[fidgiegirl]

Heydude, would hate to lose you 100%. Sometimes a break does a person good, though. I've mulled it over periodically myself, because I tend to be an all-or-none person and thus am not good at just "cutting back." This goes for many areas of my life. Anyway, you are not alone, and hopefully you have seen that we would hate to say goodbye!

[Zoebird]

I took a break from all internet forums for a while, and it was great. I'm planning on doing another one in the new year -- not sure on the dates yet, but I will definitely do it again. It's a pleasant experience.

[Wildflower]

I've been on the SLN forums for years and I often take mini breaks. Sometimes I don't post for awhile, but still check in about once a week. Sometimes I'm just too busy with life in general. Lately health problems have kept me away alot. Earlier in the year I wasn't here often due to traveling, then in the summertime I always stay busy out in my garden in the morning and evening. I spend more time outside in general with my family and the dogs in the warmer months, more time here on the forums in the wintertime...so basically I come and go with the seasons.:) Never felt like an announcement was necessary though... I seriously don't think it's that important to anyone else here.>8)

Heydude, take a break and you will figure out with time if you want to make it a permanent break or not. I have enjoyed your input here and hope to see you return if you leave, but that's a decision only you can make...

[mtnlaurel]

Heydude, I love reading your posts and have enjoyed your company tremendously.

If you will be away for a while, know that you will be missed!

All the best!
MtnLaurel

[heydude]

please see the post "Goodbye Simple Living Forum)