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razz
8-27-13, 8:34am
Occasionally, I find what I believe to be a very clear understanding of simple living that also lets one be the best that one can be and then I share it here.
Something that makes one think about our day to day lives needs to be aired widely.
Robert Genn rgenn@saraphina.com has a twice weekly newsletter and today's is about decisions.



"Choreographer Twyla Tharp's The Creative Habit, describes her morning routine of rising early and going through the same morning rituals; same coffee, same bun. She puts on the same leotards, goes down the same elevator to the same street corner, puts her same arm up in the air and gets into the first cab that comes along.



By the time she gets to the studio she has made no significant decisions. Stepping out onto the dance floor, her dancers await. It's eight in the morning and her first decision is yet to come. It will be a creative one.



We painters also need to save our decision-making for things of importance. "Don't," as they say, "sweat the small stuff." I figure an average 11" x 14" uses up several hundred thousand decisions. Compound that over a day of painting and it's in the millions. Even the small decisions in a painting, some of them so micro and seemingly insignificant, are the building blocks of what we are to become.



Fact is, some lives are so filled with impedimentary drama and ancillary decision-making that there is little time left over for work.



While I sympathize with those who find it difficult to eliminate some workaday decisions, the idea is to step ASAP into the happy hunting ground. Here are a few ideas:



Simplify morning rituals.



Keep regular habits by day and week.



Have your workplace nearby and handy.



Work in a space unsullied by impedimenta.



Use a day-timer--plan your work; work your plan.



Always ask--"Is this action necessary?"



Be businesslike--discourage time-wasters and interlopers.



Be efficient and mindful of wasted motion in your space.



Drive your car mainly for pleasure.



As far as possible, get stuff delivered and taken away.



Be modern--pay bills, bank, book flights, etc., online.



Keep your dress code practical and simple. You don't need to look good in a studio.



Quit your day and move to a relatively decision-free mode: Play well, laugh much, love much, sleep well.



Finally, and most important, with every non work-related decision, you need to decide: "Is the decision I'm making truly needed, or is it just another excuse?"



Best regards,



Robert



PS: "We cannot directly choose our circumstances, but we can choose our thoughts, and so indirectly, yet surely, we shape our circumstances." (self-help pioneer James Allen)



Esoterica: The cosmetics tycoon and women's advocate Mary Kay Ash said, "There are three types of people: those who make things happen, those who watch things happen and those who wonder what happened... You can decide which type of person you want to be." We artists, in particular, need to be among those who make things happen. Self-starting, self-motivating and self-critical, we focus our energy on thought, planning, observation, quality control and production. Difficult decisions--lots of them--are both the joy and the burden of creative folks. "Those who avoid the tough choices of life," said author Robert Brault, "live a life they never chose."

catherine
8-27-13, 9:48am
Nice checklist..

I am REALLY bad at decision-making, and I know I have a touch of ADD, so I'm a "flitter"--flitting from one activity to the next. Strong routines keep me from that, and I find great comfort in them.

iris lilies
8-27-13, 11:07am
I like that idea a lot--arrange your regular life in easy-to-complete-tasks to leave your creative brain free for the important and hard stuff.

Gardenarian
8-27-13, 1:43pm
I like that. In a novel I read recently the protagonist spoke about the value of habit - "being the track that guides us daily over the hills and crevices of life" (or words to that effect.)

I am very much a person of habit and sometimes find myself just going through the motions - but on the other hand, it does cut out a lot of the stress of decision making.

Blackdog Lin
8-28-13, 10:16pm
LOVE the checklist. Simplicity indeed.

I am also very much a person of habit - I just always thought it was a touch of OCD running through me.....

try2bfrugal
8-29-13, 12:07am
Good list. I function better with a checklist, too.

redfox
8-29-13, 2:47am
I think best like this: sit, read, write, get up, fold laundry, think, sit, write, etc. It looks inefficient, but is how my mind works.

goldensmom
8-29-13, 7:06am
Were it not for routine, checklists and being diligent about setting priorities, I could not function.