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Zoebird
10-5-13, 11:04pm
So, we fly to the US on Tuesday.

Everything is nicely sorted:

1. moving out

A. business is set up for it's sale/transition easily -- no worries. Very cool. I just have to go and do one last clean out tomorrow morning (2 hrs, max), and that's that.

B. we sold all of the house furnishings in a bulk lot to my friend. It was a discounted rate, so I told her that anything she doesn't want, she has to get rid of herself. This took a lot of pressure off of us as we just divided everything out into "keep" and "don't keep" piles. The "don't keep" are in the closet; the keep are now in suitcases.

C. we have 7 suitcases full, and one suitcase that is empty. so, that goes in the don't-keep pile, I guess. LOL We are leaving with less than we came with! yay! :D

2. the transition

A whole month hanging with friends and family. Sweet deal.

3. job prospects

A. I have 3 contracts set up to start when we arrive, and I have meetings with 3 more places to set up classes. I also connected with a local HR professional organization, and I'll be giving a presentation about workplace wellness programs and the ACA benefits for businesses, while also promoting what I offer. :)

I want to get up to 10 classes -- though not teach them all myself.

I also have an interview at a local yoga studio to teach just in case I want/need that as a back up.

B. Dh is on the second round of interviews at one company and the writing assignment (third round, after this, there will be another interview and then the offer -- if they offer it to him) at another company.

He also has a freelance gig lining up, too. They are looking for someone who can do it "full time" -- so he has said yes but that if he gets a full time gig, he'd like to transition to part-time, unless they want to employ him rather than do freelance contract (whichever is first, really). So, he's been given a writing test from them, too.

And of course, he's still applying for 2-3 jobs per day -- though that's stopped in the last two days as we get down to the last things.

C. either way, the exchange gives us decent subsidized coverage.

4. moving in

family has sorted everything on that end, so no worries on our part. Looks like "whenever DH needs to start his job or 2/3 Nov" whichever comes first. :)

My gigs don't start until the week of 5 Nov,

5. the kiddo

he's doing well. doesn't really get what is going on, doesn't understand that he won't see his friends for a while. Poor dearie. upset about leaving toys, too. I feel for him.

but he's psyched to see family.

his schooling is up in the air. we are looking at homeschooling because the school hasn't gotten back to us, really. annoying! but we are excited about homeschooling and doing cool stuff with that.

particularly because all three of the positions that are DH's top picks have part time or full time work-from-home!

This will allow me to take on jobs until I find teachers to cover them, as well as go and meet with HR departments, and DH can be with kiddo. And then, when DH is working, I can take the kiddo out to do various what-nots and also be with him at home and doing cool things like making paper bat-man costumes (DS's current 'thing').

So, yeah. that would be awesome.

Sad about leaving NZ, but excited about the prospects for our future.

Jilly
10-6-13, 12:20am
It is amazing how much you have organized and accomplished in such a relatively short time. Could that empty suitcase be filled with some of those toys that your little one might like to keep?

Zoebird
10-6-13, 1:00am
We really only got rid of the ones that smelled moldy -- which we are happy to part with. Well, "we" the parents. Poor kid. Still, it's all good. :) One less bag saves us $75, though. so . :)

catherine
10-6-13, 7:30am
OMG, I am so jealous--your worldly possessions in 7 suitcases! And a new big adventure ahead of you! Good luck with it. I know it's sad to leave the old behind and let go, but sounds like you have everything well in hand.

As for DS, he'll adjust really quickly I'm sure.. I remember when my DS was about 7, and we were planning to move from New York to New Jersey. DS started acting out in school to the extent that I got a call from the teacher. So I sat him down and asked him, "Is there something you're mad or sad about?" And he burst into tears and started crying, saying, "We're going to New Jersey and I'm going to have to learn a new language!"

Amazing how hard it is to put ourselves in their positions sometimes!

He did very well in New Jersey, and he even learned how to speak Joisey very well! (Actually even though they were raised here none of my kids have the typical Jersey Shore accent, thank God)

Bon voyage, Zoebird!

CathyA
10-6-13, 10:19am
Sounds like quite an adventure Zoebird. Have a safe trip and best of luck with your new start.

redfox
10-6-13, 1:31pm
Enjoy your new beginnings. I love change...

SiouzQ.
10-6-13, 6:51pm
I am impressed with your efficiency, Zoe Bird! Good luck with things here on out, and welcome back to the US!

Blackdog Lin
10-6-13, 9:08pm
I am so happy that it's working out for you with a minimum of fuss/hassle. You go girl!

Tradd
10-6-13, 9:14pm
Zoe, all your stuff in 7 suitcases? I, too, am envious! :)

Sounds wonderfully efficient. I can so relate. Hope your trip back is uneventful!

Zoebird
10-7-13, 3:40am
I know. and my family did decide to back off on the furniture stuff. They did give me a table/chairs (for their comfort, really), and then a berky filter and a set of lodge cast iron cookware. I thought it was awesome of them to do that for us, rather than go crazy. I bought the thai mat, some organic flat sheets and pillow cases, and a nice wool blanket (from my sister's friend -- she said it was too warm). So, that didn't cost too much.

Zoebird
10-7-13, 7:10am
It is midnight; time for bed.

Busy day -- said good bye to several people, saw the office for the last time, enjoyed a great meal on the harbor, played in the first playground that was DS's favorite, had ice cream, visited with a few clients, finished packing except the last load of laundry to be done.

Tomorrow, we put the last load (drying in the morning) into the dryer, then pack it, and head over to the air port to check-in (which we can do 24 hrs in advance!). Then we have a day to relax, visit with a few friends, and we are at the airport at 3:30.

So, that's us. Plane tickets printed, passports sorted, paperwork finished, and away we go!

razz
10-7-13, 9:14am
Wishing you a harmonious and positive experience for your family's trip and settling in your new home.

Gardenarian
10-7-13, 6:33pm
Good luck on your journey!

catherine
10-7-13, 6:36pm
Have a great last night, and a great flight!!

Zoebird
10-12-13, 12:40pm
Flights went great, been visiting family and sleeping and having a great time.

Today, DS is going fishing with my great uncle (so his great-great uncle), and we're going to chill. Minor mess at the business to take care of, and then we are good to go.

Zoebird
10-12-13, 12:43pm
Also, culture shock.

shadowmoss
10-12-13, 2:25pm
Yes, I remember standing in Mom's kitchen the morning after arriving from Honduras when it hit me I could make my cup of coffee from water from the kitchen faucet now, I didn't have to find bottled water. Culture shock is funny in that it is sometimes difficult to think ahead of time what will hit you as 'different'.

clara24
11-27-13, 2:45am
It seem that everything is well plan and it is really a big move.Well i remember when i was loss my job and i do a big move for looking a job everywhere luckily in Finland country i found a recruitment agency at http://staffpoint.fi/ (http://staffpoint.fi) which help me to have a job and i am really lucky that even i am in recruitment agency i have a job.

SteveinMN
11-27-13, 3:05pm
>8)

Jilly
11-27-13, 8:44pm
Snort.