Originally Posted by
bke
Dh and I have been self employed since 2001. It is stressful and overwhelming at times. Basically seems like a 24/7 job. Not hard but a ton of hours both in the business and outside just to maintain. It is really hard for us to have a day off together. There have definitely been times when I would have rather had a 9 to 5 with set days off and benefits!
Positives:
1. Dh has a 6th grade education. Finding a good career elsewhere would be a challenge when you combine that with the fact that english is his second language (self taught). I do the office stuff-he runs the kitchen and we compliment each others strengths and weaknesses very well.
2. No day care when ds was little. He came with us to work. I set him up with a nice little area where he could finger paint and get creative with clay to his little heart's content and never worried about the damage-lol!
3. Money was really tight in the beginning but we're reaching FI quickly. There are a lot more ways to manipulate money to your greatest advantage when you work for yourself. BUT, business assets do not equal personal assets!! We've seen many places struggle and fail through the years because they ignore this fact.
4. I never, ever have to worry about being unexpectedly laid off.
5. If business ever got bad enough dh and I could handle the entire operation without outside help.
I'll be happy to answer specific questions if anyone has them.