Originally Posted by
ToomuchStuff
I can certainly give you an example.
While the judge hadn't officially signed off on my late bosses estate (making sure all the medical bills were done, lawyer got covid at least once), all were in agreement on the vehicle that had been a problem and the judge gave the all clear on it.
The car belonged to a coworker and the gal that helped him. She had medical training and when we met her, had just divorced from her spouse (long story there) and was dealing with her kids drug issues. Because of her ex's stuff (stole her identity, a lot of fraud to "her" name), she was having issues paying the taxes on it. She discussed it all with him and asked if he would be willing to have his name as well on the title, so she could pay the taxes/keep licensed, etc. On a drunken Thursday, he took the title up and put just his name on it, instead of both, with no TOD. She was freaked out by his death, then more so about "losing her car", while the family only knew what the car was listed as. She didn't want them to see it. I had to step in and explain to both, what it was, wasn't and would take to get where all would like it to be (not cost effective). We had discussed this earlier as her goal then became a restomod.
Anyways, she got the title back and was told to get it transfered. A week after my bosses estate was settled, she hadn't done it yet, and passed suddenly.
So now I am being asked to help deal with it again.