Originally Posted by
Zoebird
Iris lily,
I honestly don't know what you are talking about. I never said (or insinuated) such a thing. I spoke to my personal experience of talking to friends about this.
I don't want them to not be republican or even change their position on entitlements. Instead, I'd like to honestly talk about the ideas around this -- the ideas around why entitlements exist, whether or not they benefit the society as a whole on-going, and where we want the lowest bar of poverty in our society to be (I already wrote about this on another thread). Just honest discussion on the matter.
And, I want them to be clear on which entitlements they do value -- because they do obviously value those from which they personally benefit. And yet, most of them assert that they are an exception, not the rule, and as such they should get the benefits (they are deserving) while others should not. I find this confusing, and perhaps intellectually dishonest.
Likewise, I simply like to talk about ideas. To me, these ideas are interesting. In several other threads, many of the more conservative members of the boards have agreed with me on certain measures: it's not about whether or not we should have entitlements, but really where the bar of poverty is going to be in our society (where is poor enough?) and what that means for our society as a whole; lets stop talking about entitlements and start talking about how the policy and ideology of military interventionism is what is really blowing our budget (a neocon idea, part of the republican party now, and an idea that started to take root in the 1980s); and how if we let go of military interventionism and seek to spend on defense only that which is needed to maintain our standing military for security purposes and support our vets, then we will be able to more quickly balance the budget and do what we want for all of our citizens.
Several of the forum stalwart conservatives agreed with these ideas. They are not radical ideas. They are really starting points for discussion (because after you agree to an idea, you have to figure out the 'how' of achieving it -- and that's what's interesting to me).
The problem here is, as soon as I bring up an idea like this -- particularly to one of my republican friends (again, educated people who live all over the US), I am shut down immediately for being stupid, brainwashed by liberal professors, uneducated on the topic (even when I provide evidence and policy papers from republican and libertarian as well as democrat and other liberal sources), an "obvious lover of big government," accused of "using too many words isn't winning your argument" (that's a personal favorite. I posted three linked articles to conservative think tanks, go figure), and even accused of being pol pot (or similar), as well as -- as you have done -- accused of thinking that everyone else is dumb.
Reality is, I think everyone is smart, and I'd like to talk about ideas -- and be open and honest about what we are really talking about, thinking about, researching, feeling, etc.