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I agree, she sounds happy. Hope you are as well, rr.

Rosa, thinking of you during these difficult if entertaining mom years.

Thanks. I think I am one of those people with a pretty high happiness "set point," and I tend to be pretty cheerful and optimistic even under adverse circumstances.
That being said, I will certainly be relieved when this ordeal is over.

Mom finally qualifies for hospice. The intake RN yesterday said she did not expect Mom to go off hospice status and could probably be recertified for the duration, depending on how long she lasts. So while it is tragic to watch her decline, it's a relief to think that the end may be in sight, and that we may be able to avoid the unpleasantness of a nursing home for her. Hospice actually provides some tangible support unlike the other programs we've been enrolled in (Palliative Care, GUIDE program). She's lost 20 lbs since November, and I actually outweigh her at this point for the first time ever (she was always a much larger model than me).

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Originally Posted by rosarugosa

Mom finally qualifies for hospice. The intake RN yesterday said she did not expect Mom to go off hospice status and could probably be recertified for the duration, depending on how long she lasts. So while it is tragic to watch her decline, it's a relief to think that the end may be in sight, and that we may be able to avoid the unpleasantness of a nursing home for her. Hospice actually provides some tangible support unlike the other programs we've been enrolled in (Palliative Care, GUIDE program). She's lost 20 lbs since November, and I actually outweigh her at this point for the first time ever (she was always a much larger model than me).

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That is such a good thing, that she could qualify. So sorry she is going through this.

I'm glad your mom will be getting the best care possible, and that your mind can be put at ease. You have been such a wonderful daughter to her, and she's lucky to have you.

everything I hear about hospice care is good.

what’s going on with your mother’s physiology? I mean, I know her mental state is in decline, but what else?

Hugs to all of you! It seems like the moving forward is in a positive way, even though sad.

I've had only positive experiences with Hospice. It's weird, but many of my loved ones have died in the fall and early winter, and it seems fitting, somehow. It sits easier in my mind, ending in the season of ending. The symbolism is extra comforting. All things end, and then begin again. Thinking of you and yours, and internet hugs for you ((())).

Hugs from here, too, Rosa. Hospice workers are angels here on earth. Truly.