Musings on Open Concept Design
So, right now, DH is taking his morning nap (he gets up at about 4am every day, and then eats breakfast around 8 and takes a nap.). He naps on the living room couch. So I quietly move around when I have to leave my office but otherwise, I shut my door. Shutting a door could be interpreted as anti-social. In my case, I will be on an interview soon and I don't want to disturb him and so I consider it pro-social.
Shutting the door can be a much m ore valid boundary when living in close quarters vs spread out quarters. No one argues with you if you feel compelled to have some alone time. I'm thinking of my DDIL who shut the door to my office yesterday when the rest of the family was here so she could practice her Japanese language course.
So it struck me that in smaller homes, doors tend to be very important. OTOH, when you have a 3000+ square foot home, you don't need as many doors. I wonder if the trend to open concept is connected to the trend for larger homes. In a big space one might yearn for someone to pass through--someone they haven't seen all day because they've been far away in other section of the house--a basement or a wing over the garage.
It's an interesting balance that a house has to accommodate between solitude and companionship. Any thoughts?