I will never forget when I was 23. I had just moved to NYC and went to visit my folks in Denver for a week. I decided to grow a beard on that trip. When I got home a friend was horrified. "WHY ARE YOU GROWING A BEARD??? HOW WILL YOU GET A DADDY???" I realized at that moment I didn't want to have a daddy. (or be a toy, as in Bowie's song) I've never looked back.