I promised to post any developments. So here goes -
1. Had an encouraging talk with an immigration attorney in Quito. The next step is to visit and I'm working on getting time off in June or July when it's slower. We picked Ecuador as Cuenca is quite safe and sexual orientation is a non-issue unlike in Colombia.
2. Mom may have to leave the US. She is on more than one med for anxiety/depression and needs these meds - which Kennedy aims to ban - in order to function. She has no choice other than to flee the US should these meds be banned - interesting timing, no? I'm grateful in the sense that my Mother deserves better than the United States, a country that has no problem cold bloodedly cutting off access to these meds. There is no excuse nor justification - only plans in place to flee.
3. I hope you'all - even the ones I've clashed with - can find a way permanently out of the United States.
'Taint going to be getting any better from here on out.
Rob