I think "dirty" is an ambiguous term here. Growing up, my mom was working full time, earning her PhD in Chemistry, and raising me and my sister. I remember she had a sign in the kitchen that said "A clean home is a sign of a misspent life." There was never a health hazard, and who knows by today's standards maybe it was even above average. But for sure there are choices to be made about how to allocate time and energy. Not everyone prioritizes Good Housekeeping. So I'd say make sure there is no risk to her, and from there just let her be her.



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