What can you do about things that distress you?

[ToomuchStuff]

Look, TMS, I am going to speak to you like your mother: you need to say “ No” to these tasks associated with the person you are supporting.
Just. Say. No.

It’s ok to do that. Really.

Trust me, I did to the medical supply house. Yesterday I sent a letter to his social worker where they asked me to do a welfare check, asking why the social worker isn't investigating his living situation (against doctor's orders), or asking the police to do a welfare check (since I was down on the list and didn't authorize my name being added).
I asked them where do I bill? If I discover the body, what am I to do, grab a glad bag? And explained he isn't the only one dying, so he can just get his ass back to work and relieve this dying guy. They will get the point.

And mom nurse is the one that now has cancer, along side me.

[catherine]

And mom nurse is the one that now has cancer, along side me.

Oh, no! Well, if she's like me, she's prayed to God to take the cancer off her child and give it to her. Seemingly, God has yet to honor the other side of the deal. Not fair. I'm so sorry.

[flowerseverywhere]

I met a retired family practice doctor today. He volunteers for hospice. He goes into facilities and homes and visits people weekly. Sometimes when the caregiver goes out for errands or appointments, sometimes just to say hi. I was inspired by his calmness and caring. What a gift to give.

[rosarugosa]

TMS: I'm so sorry for your mother's diagnosis.

[happystuff]

TMS, read to fast and didn't realize your mom also had cancer. Sending even more prayers and positive energies to you both.

[Tradd]

TMS, so sorry to hear about your mom b