Originally Posted by
ToomuchStuff
Anyone ever successfully convince their family not to buy them stuff they don't need, won't use and would rather not store? How did you go about it?
Every year she wants a Christmas list and I keep telling her I don't need/want anything. This year I gave her one item (magazine subscription to one I buy on occasion/not available at the library) and she is complaining that is not enough. I am sorting though one closet, in hopes to put some long sleeve winter shirts in it. It is FILLED with t shirts, she keeps buying at $1 a pop. (thrift store will be happy). She will still give me consumables I don't need (already have 10+ spare bars of soap and 8 deodorant sticks, etc). Just feels like an enormous waste to flood someone with stuff, so they have to take time/fuel etc. to take it to a donation spot. (she won't donate instead for a gift, tried that for a couple of years).
Christmas should be for the grandkids (my nieces and nephews). She still thinks us kids need to be bought for. Feels like walking the Christmas treadmill, just keep walking but don't get anywhere.