I am super laid back...make yourself at home and I really mean it.

I do ask food needs/preferences/allergies. I want to have foods around that are comforting for my guests.
If guests are not up and i'm hungry, I eat. When they get up, I offer beverage and let me know when you're hungry and I'll make you some chow.
After breakfast I'll ask "is there anything you'd like to do today?" Based on response and the time, I'll set a sort of meal schedule and the plan.
I'm happy to drive guests to see the sights. I'm happy to lounge around and chat/relax.
And I like to wash sheets prior to arrival not upon departure so I tell folks to leave it. When I'm a guest, I ask preference.

All plans are subject to change.

When I'm a guest, I follow ques......I will say "I get up super early. Can you show me where the coffee stuff is?" After that, I'm a follower. I'll offer to help if my host says they're going to start/do something.

As you can see, I'm not for rules. I want my guests to relax and rejuvinate and I like to do the same when I'm traveling.